
A copy of the word I shared in the our smallgroup last Tuesday :)
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REELationships, REALationships, relationSHIPS
Reel- go round, go round and round, whirl, spin, revolve, swirl, twirl, turn, swim.
Real- Authentic, Truth, True, tangible
Relate – communicate
From the range of 1-10, rate how great or how poor your relationship is with your...
....FRIENDS.
…FAMILY.
…GOD.
The one who gets the lowest will always be God. Believe it or not. The one who will always get the highest will be our friends.
FACT: The more important the relationship is, the lesser importance we give to it.
Why? We always neglect those whom we think would always understand us.
…EVEN IF WE MISBEHAVE.
…EVEN IF WE REBEL.
…EVEN IF WE ABUSE.
Why?
1. Because we know that we can always abuse their love for us.
2. Because we know na ‘hindi nila tayo matitiis’
3. Because we know that when everyone walks out on us, they will still be there for us.
Last week’s topic: Getting to Know God.
Today’s topic: REELationship? REALationship? RelationSHIPS.
Ships = Vessel
Text: Luke 10:27
"Love the Lord your God with all your heart, your soul, your mind and your strength & love your neighbor as you love yourself."
We’re like ships made to relate to one another! =)
1. J.O.Y (Jesus owns you!) – Love the Lord your God w/ all your heart, your soul
First of all, why heart? Because it is in our hearts that we feel! God wants us to love him not only mentally or spiritually but also emotionally. See Psalms. David was very emotional.
What God says:
“Because I love you with an everlasting love.” – Jeremiah 31:3
“For you are my treasured possession.” Exodus 19:5
2. W.W.J.D (Walk with Jesus Daily) – With all your strength
Why strength? Not with all our wisdom? Because it is in our strength that we get to apply everything we know, everything we’ve learned, everything we feel. From singing songs, doing missions, and serving God!
What God says:
“As a shepherd carries a lamb, I have carried you close to my heart.” – Isaiah 40:11
“I will never stop doing good to you.” – Jeremiah 32:40
3. T.G.I.F (Today God is First) – With all your mind
Mind because this is where all the knowing starts! This is where… the battle begins. The Lord knows us very well that’s why he said,
“Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.” –Romans 4:8
What God says:
“I gave up everything I had that I might gain your love.” – Romans 8:31-32
4. CTC? (Care to Care?) – love your neighbor as you love yourself
We need to demonstrate care just like how Joseph cared for his brothers, just like how Moses took care of the Israelites, just how Noah took care of the animals and etc.
What God says:
“I tell you the truth, when you did it to one of the least of these my brothers and sisters, you were doing it to me.” –Matthew 25:40
Let’s always ask our selves, WWJD? What would Jesus Do?
END POINT: The secret key to keep all our relationships going is to keep our hearts closer to God. God desires to lavish His love on us… God desires for us to lavish His love on others, too.
It’s all about God lavishing His love on people.
People lavishing their love on God.
And People lavishing their love, on people.
CHALLENGE: TELL SOMEONE YOU LOVE THEM TODAY.
I feel compelled to write about this verse.
Therefore, my dear brothers, stand firm. Let nothing move you. Always give yourselves fully to the work of the Lord, because you know that your labor in the Lord is not in vain. - 1 Corinthians 15:58


I spoke this message during my 18th birthday :)
Taste.
- A brief experience of something, conveying its basic character [noun]
- Perceive or experience the flavor of [verb]
And.
- Together with, along with, with,
as well as, in addition to, etc., [conjunction]
See.
- Latin word, sequi ‘follow.’
- Perceive with eyes.
- Discern.
- Meet.
“TASTE AND SEE THAT THE LORD IS GOOD.”
This verse invites us not only to taste, not only to see, BUT -- to taste and to see that the LORD is GOOD.
It might be that you’re going crazy with what’s happening in your life right now, you can’t even see God’s care and love.
It might be that things are too complicated to understand that you just leave it the way it is right now and ignore it like nothing’s happening.
It might be that everything in your life’s wrong and nothings right anymore, that everything’s broken and it’s impossible to even fix the situation.
It might be that you’re losing it all, or it might be that the faith you have in God is gone now and that everything doesn’t make sense anymore.
It might be that you think everyone’s condemning you, that no one understands your pain, or no one recognizes your worth.
This is where the verse comes in. “TASTE and SEE that the Lord is GOOD!”
GOD cares about you. GOD sees what you’re going through. GOD hears the cries in your heart, even the deepest aches. GOD heals. Why? Simply because GOD is GOOD. You won’t be able to experience His goodness if you shut the door of your heart close to Him.
It clearly says, “TASTE.” This word is not only a noun, but a VERB. Try God. Try Jesus. Try to open up your heart to Him. Accept Him in your life. Accept Jesus. He offers EVERLASTING LIFE.
No, God did not promise that life with Him is easy. BUT He did promise that His grace is sufficient for each and every weaknesses that we have. He is the SOURCE of everything you need. Life’s hard? Smile! GOD IS GOOD. See it for yourself. Want to experience His goodness? Just take a step of faith, let go of all the lies of the enemy, because GOD is GOOD. God is great. He is faithful.
You’re asking me, “How can I even experience that kind of goodness when I’m not even worth His love and His attention?”
No. That’s a lie. We keep on trying to do all good things, everything else that we can just to EARN GOD’S LOVE… but that’s not how it’s supposed to be.
We don’t need to earn His love because His love is FOR FREE. Whether you like it or not, God loves you.
You ask me why?
"You don't have to take control of things because it's my job."
What a soft, sweet, rebuke.
In a culture that is pushing everyone to compete against one another, in a world that screams for justice, in a universe that is too crowded, in a room that is really suffocating, in the streets where people are dying and are begging for mercy -- you can see what it truly lacks.
You can see the emptiness; the halo hearts; the desperate silent stares from empty people you meet on streets; those eyes that had just gotten dried up right after crying... You see what the world lacks now? Let me elaborate it further; putting it into more vivid, clearer & imaginable details.
You just had the world's greatest heartache yet you don't know where to run to, you fall and trip on your knees but no one's lending you a hand in the crowd. You go to school unnoticed even with the effort
you make. You try to keep a title for people to love you but in the end you got tangled up in a mask of pretension.
You got kicked out from your home, you drank up 'til you passed out, you went to a bar; went out with friends, you smoked weed, you still found yourself -- empty. Empty with nothing inside but a huge deafening silence.
Now do you know what you lack? The Savior's love.
You say you're unlovable? Think again, the Lord loves you just the way you are. He fashioned you, he took care of you in your mother's womb, he loves you so very much!
You say no one understands you? Think again, the Lord knows what you're about to say even before you utter it. He knows everything we have in mind, he reads our minds!
You say you're tired and can't stand your life anymore? Think about the sacrifice Jesus did at the Cross. He was beaten, bruised, he was mistreated! It's nothing compared to the trials we face!
You say you want to die? Think about the nail-pierced hands of the loving Savior who gave His life for you.
He died in order for us to live, now you just want to take away your life because you want to escape? He died for you! He pained himself with those nails for you!
You say you're alone? Think about the presence of God that follows you wherever. Jesus is omnipresent! Even though we can't see him, he's always with us. We should never doubt that because we won't experience his company unless we believe that he is with us!
You say you're empty? Think about the love that Jesus has for you. Jesus had purposely created empty hearts so he can fill them with his power, with his love, with his grace, with his presence. We are being emptied to be filled again, over and over again!
The love of this Savior is so deep that once you experience it you don't want to ever let go again. The love of this Savior is above everything else in this world. The love of this Savior who died for you is something that money can never buy, it's not something that can be taken away from you, and bear in mind that nothing will ever separate you from His love except sin. The love of this Savior is enough to break barriers of sins. The love of this Savior is enough to break prison bars. The love of this Savior is enough to set the captives free. The love of this Savior is enough to change our moods, the way we think, and even our lives. The love of this Savior is enough to break hearts of stone. The love of this Savior is enough to penetrate in this dark and lonely and empty world. See the sad glances of people you pass by at times? The love of this Savior can transform those glances into something better.
The love of this Savior is for free.
Jesus will never give up on us. Jesus will love us even though we feel like we're the ugliest person in the world. Jesus will love us even though we're growing pimples that makes us feel like we're losing confidence. Jesus will love us in our worst moments, in the times when we feel like letting go, in the times when we think that everything's unfair. Jesus will always love us despite the flaws we have. Jesus will never let go of our hands.
When he holds onto us, His grip is secure, not too tight but tight enough to protect us from falling and hurting ourselves. Jesus offers a love that is unconditional. He was thinking about us when he was hanging on the Cross. He wasn't thinking about himself. He was thinking about our lives. He wanted our hearts to be His.
His heart beats for us.
The love that He offers is true, real, it never expires, never runs out, it never fails, never ceases,
it has no conditions. He will love us whether we're fat, chubby, skinny, anorexic. He will love us even if we have illnesses. He will love us even though we're not popular, even when we're outcasts, even when we think we're so invisible. He will love us even if our friends would betray us, even if our parents forsake us, even though we lose all hope in the world. Jesus had always thought that we are precious, that we are priceless, that we are really beautiful. He always looks at us with love in His eyes, with huge admiration, He delights in our lives. He wants our hearts.
Jesus loves you. His love is nothing compared to the love that people would give us. Why?Because this love that He gives...
...is unfathomable.
...is unchanging.
...is never ending.
...is everlasting.
Let us not neglect the love of Jesus but let's accept it and allow it to make a revolution in our hearts.

